Prevencion del Suicidio Adolescente /Juvenil

Esta pagina es para jovenes con problemas familiares, que se deprimen, se cortan o se lastiman, y hasta piensan en suicidarse. Asi mismo, para jovenes que quieren ayudar a los adolescentes con este tipo de problemas. La idea central es formar un grupo de apoyo emocional vinculando jovenes entre si.

Esta pagina web va a servir como lugar para conectar jovenes con problemas con aquellos que quieren ayudar.

Lo que haremos es formar y mantener una lista de todos los jovenes y compartirla para hacer amigos que entiendan y escuchen. La pagina tambien va a servir como base para una futura ONG dedicada a la prevencion de suicidio adolescente.

Si necesitas alguien para hablar, o si quieres ayudar, escribe un mail a joveneseqi@yahoo.com

Como Ayudar

Todos queremos ayudar a nuestros amigos. Pero a veces no sabemos como. A veces intentamos dar consejos, pero lo mas importante es solo escuchar.

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Escribiremos mas tarde....

Sandra was writing something which worried me so I asked her if I could make a comment. Here is what she was writing...

(You might feel alone but you aren't really alone. There are always people in the world who care about you....)

I told her that there really are people who are alone in this world. They really don't have even one person in the world who understands them, who accepts them and who they can be honest with. So if someone tells them that they aren't really alone, but instead they just feel alone, then they feel even worse. They feels worse becaue they need someone to undertand how alone they are and no one does understand.

I know for me, I don't want to talk to someone that says I am not really alone when I feel alone. And I don't want anyone to tell me that I don't feel what I actually do feel, or that I shouldn't feel what I feel or anything else. I just want them to listen and to show me that they understand me.

I told Sandra all of this and explained to her that it is like telling someone who is cold and wet that they aren't really cold and wet. This doesn't help anyone. It only makes them feel even worse, or perhaps confuses them if they start to believe the other person instead of trusting their own feelings.

When I told Sandra this she understood. I asked her if she could just write about her experiences and this is what she then wrote...

I felt touched that Sandra understood so quickly and did not get defensive or try to debate with me. It was even a little hard to believe, because I am so used to people getting defensive and arguing with me. But she understood quickly and saw how it would not help someone to read what she had started writing. ....

Estos jóvenes están por todo el mundo, y les gusta comunicarse vía chat. Me han dicho que esto los ayuda mas que cualquier otra cosa.

Cuando yo vivía en los Estados Unidos, recibí un certificado en la Prevención de Suicidios. No soy un psicólogo, pero he aprendido a escuchar a los jóvenes y no se necesita un titulo en psicología para saber escuchar.

La primera vez que vine a Argentina, me entere de una gran cantidad de jóvenes suicidas y he decidido hacer todo lo que pueda para ayudarlos. Quiero empezar el mismo tipo de red de jóvenes que podrían ayudarse en Argentina.

Aqui se encuentra una pagina con un poco de informacion de lo que estamos haciendo en Salta.